TIPS for YOU

Most of us will say that ,,,, its better if you started as friends. Yes it is true that when you started as friends it will be a great foundation towards love but of course there is also a possibility that when you started courting her after a long time of friendship the girl will tell you that "it’s better for us to be friends..." and that will hurt more because it is so hard to lose a friend which you love most.
I have a friend that need answers to these questions and I hope I could be a help in my own little way.
Q: 1- Is it really safe if you started as friends when you love someone?

A:1- Well depends on the situation (let’s just say you are friends already for long time ,,that’s the scenario),, well its true to someone to say that it is safe to be friend first, but not to all,,, it is more hard actually to admit that you love her not being a friend but more than..... well there two possible reasons .1st ....she might love u more than friend too and 2nd.... love u being just a friend and that hurts.... and might be the end of your friendship .....but you have to try and whatever the answer will be you have to be ready. Actually when you're friends, you don't really have to do anything, just always be there for her... then let nature take its course. There’s a saying that “if you meant to be .. you’re meant to be "if not.... it’s not” but, you know what, when you've been close friends for a long time, you'll come to a point where you have to go to the next stage/level.Either you become best of friends, you part ways, or you become lovers. Maybe when you reach that point, you'll know both where your relationship will-work best.

Q:2.-How would you know that your friendship will last to love and not as a friend only?

A:2.- The best persons that could answer that is you and her..I think as humans we know how to distinguished, if that feeling is just for a friend or for real . Well if you are doing things which is not normal for being a friend, then that’s it

Q:3- How to court a girl?

A:3- If u want to go courting,...it doesn't take that much to make a really nice girl happy. Girls are easy to please..you don't have to be pretentious, just be yourself....the littlest things make girls happy......ike being thoughtful enough to walk with her or accompany her....being thoughtful enough to ask for their opinions as well...even sweet nonsensical things makes them happy...it's really in the purity & sincerity of the feeling ,,your intension...'cause if your feelings is pure and true, it will show...GO AND TELL HER ..What are you waiting for NEW YEAR... 2010 or 2011 of what?? Always remember this -“It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations”- Clarke Wayne