Saturday, April 10, 2010
We Are The World Songs from the Heart album
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Saturday, November 7, 2009
DISTANCE PARTNERS
Below are some of the advices,, that could help u, although they may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more than your effort and discipline. It is your desire to survive the relationship that makes the most impact in writing the outcome of your distance relationship. Consider some of the below do and don’t list and together with your desire, I am pretty sure you are able to conquer your distance relationship with ease and fun.
1) Establish an effective communication channel. The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but apart from the telephone services, there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.
2) Plan to meet each other. There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your LDR.
3) Build hobby that you can both share, By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.
4) Surprise your partner Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.
5) Capture and share that interesting moment. Throughout the period of your LDR, you can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.
1) Settle for a temporary replacement. One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.
2) Take the relationship lightly. The absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.
3) Wait and see attitude. Most of the failures in distance relationship that we observed are contributed by the wait and see attitude of the couples themselves. This was caused by the insecurity of the couple as they do not think that the LDR will work but at the same time they do not want to put a stop to the relationship. Let me tell you this, if you plan to have this kind of attitude, refrain from walking into one at the first place because both you and your partner will suffer in the relationship. In a LDR, both partners must be committed and proactive in bringing the relationship to a higher level.
4) Suspicion. There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your partner is apt to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under your nose. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your LDR.
5) Succumb to negative comment on LDR Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that LDR do not work. The negative impression you have in LDR will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work. I knew it because I had successfully conquered my own distance relationship due to the reason that I am not influence by any of the bad comments I received.
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Friday, October 23, 2009
busy as always
Im too busy this week... lots of things to finish yet undone ... well.. its a busy week to all i know but i am looking forward for december holiday ...it's goin to be soon ,,,,,,8 more weeks to go and home sweet home again ..
i just got the articles done by my students to be publish in our school magazine souvenir for December Grand Open House . hhahaha i havent read it all but they are all good in writing ,,anyway i'll keep you posted evey now and then ,, need to go coz i need to harvest my fruits and vegetables and opps milk the cows in my Farm ,,,
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Friday, October 16, 2009
TGIF
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Thursday, October 15, 2009
Tired But Excited
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Friday, October 9, 2009
My New Instrument
These tone holes are on the front of the instrument. There is also a sound hole on the back. The ocarina is small enough to be held in two hands with the fingers used to cover and uncover the holes, while blowing through a mouthpiece. The lowest tone is generated when all the tones holes are covered and the sound hole is uncovered. The tone becomes higher as the tone holes are uncovered one by one.
Altough the origins of the ocarina are somewhat unclear, it appears to be related to a number of similarly-shaped instruments that developed separately in most of the world's great civilizations. For example, in China an egg-shaped instrument has six tone holes and dates back some 7,000 years
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Thursday, October 8, 2009
Singapore School Medan, Celebrates Children's Day '09
The day began with the warm opening remarks by the school principal Ms. Jee, she also led the releasing of balloons with a tag on it (each class released balloon as well). A big banner rolled down from the 3rd floor to the ground floor saying “Happy Children’s Day” creatively done by the teacher aides. Teachers prepared small banner for their own class as well. Informative and entertaining “show” by the teachers was followed. Special games was held at the school ground, different levels have different games like,( sack race, hit the pot, and more, “Pabitin” and hit the pot was the most highlighted games and all levels participated which the students enjoyed most. Pre primary played a special role as they had their special booth (face painting) and a booth where you can buy a card worth Rp. 5000 proceeds will be donated to the victims of Padang Earthquake in Padang Indonesia. Primary 4- JC classes adopted Orphans from (Sunshine Medical Center ) an orphanage located need the school and shared some special moments with them and food as well.
SIS, Medan celebrated Children’s Day with great pomp and show. The uniqueness of the programme was that the students were the chief guests while the orphans’ is our guest of honours. The Prefects headed by Frenado (head prefect) extend help too by assisting the teachers. The teachers presented a colourful and magnificent presentation for the children. The guests’ of honours (orphans) had fun and received presents from SIS students.
The day was celebrated and ended with great enthusiasm and fervour at SIS, Medan. The campus was buzzing with excitement and joy as they see their beautifully dressed-up teachers in various presentations. The celebration was a success…
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